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Lick it up, baby. Lick it up.

Of the many things my mother admittedly regrets about my formative years – one of them was our lack luster dietary habits. She openly acknowledges the fact that she wasn’t a pro in the kitchen and I have spent years despising even the sight of Hamburger Helper Beef Stroganoff. Just typing the words conjures the smell of the boxed meal and brings my gag reflex up to attention. We drank Diet Coke all day (to the dismay of our dentists) and threw saltines with spray cheese in our bags for lunch. I reminisce over a long summer week spent with a grandfather who indulged us in meals of macaroni and chocolate ice cream. Mmmm. Now – some twenty odd years later – I’m unlearning those bad habits.

That’s not to say that I long for the other end of the pendulum swing. Not for one minute would I have wanted to live under the scrutinous eye of a microbiotic mother.

This is why I really enjoyed Laura Bennett’s commentary on “Food Nazi Moms” on AlterNet. Apparently – in conversation with a fellow parent – the other mother went on a tirade about her ex-husband’s gross negligence in packing their children’s lunches. Specifically:

He had packed a non-organic lunch for her sons. Seriously. She went on to describe the brown bags loaded with Cheetos, Go-gurt, and a sandwich that was made with white bread.

[...]She went on and on about the dangers of food additives and how they had exacerbated one of her boys’ ADHD. She talked about how each morning when her boys are in her care she takes the time to poach Amish-raised, free-range chicken and then stuffs it into a whole-grain pita with hydroponic tomatoes and micro-greens and that her ex was obviously not fit to spend time with the kids because he was willing to put their health in such grave danger.

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Minding your international manners

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Consider yourself global? Intercultural? Worldly? Think you could be plopped down at any international table for a meal and blend in with the locals? Or are you just struggling to not repulse your fellow diners each day?

If so – test your knowledge on this quick flash quiz on international dining customs and see how your manners stack up.

Don’t Gross Out the World

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I wish I knew how to quit you: The hardest addictions to break

If you’re a smoker, drinker, over-eater or frequent drug user – you know all too well how the arguments go. Usually – they start with an innocuous yet well-meaning observation: “You’ve had how many packs/drinks/servings? Don’t you know how bad that is for you?” which is frequently associated with the claim, “I’m just concerned about your health.” You, on the other hand, feel as though they’re just butting in and treating you like a child. You’re capable of making your own decisions without their intervention thankyouverymuch.

If you’re a non-smoker, non-drinker, non-user of an appropriate weight – you also know all too well how the arguments go. You watch someone you know and care about begin to slip out of control. They seem to get sloppy too much too often. Their waistline continues to widen despite proclamations of being on a diet, weaning off nicotine or not having had a drink in a while. They’re blowing more literal smoke than a politician’s figurative. It’s frustrating because it’s so obviously harmful.

Inevitably – both arguments boil down to key factors: genetics, environment, willpower or addiction.

And most of the time – the arguments never really come to a satisfactory conclusion. One side may submit (with an exasperated, heavy sigh) to change for the better, yet only for the short term. The other, may reluctantly retreat from the subject matter until a later date.

Psychology Today published a list of the seven hardest addictions to quit. While love topped the list (because swooning is a natural high) and cigarettes, alcohol, heroin and cocaine also made the list – the second most difficult addiction to break was food.

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Conversation Fodder: Co-existence Reasoning

Religion and science have oft been likened to a pair of polarized and combative siblings in the family known as “Human Understanding”. While both are very distinct and definitive ways of understanding the big hot mess around us known as the world – neither of the two seem all too quick to embrace the other side, let alone shake hands with some shaky assertions. Evolution, shmevolution – the stereotype held by many is that religious folk are superstitious and oblivious to facts while scientists love carrying on godless works of arrogance in their laboratories. It’s like West Side Story but with crucifixes and lab coats – frankincense and mercury.

However – for those in the middle that cannot deny the existence of either – the blogs at Psychology Today point out that we’re not alone. While many of us understand the scientific reasons behind how things occur – we simultaneously believe that a higher power influences why those events initiated.  As Dr. Jesse Bering points out:

University of Michigan psychologist Susan Gelman and her colleagues have been exploring people’s causal reasoning about illness. These researchers have found that, at least when it comes to what goes on in our own heads, there’s not much of a conflict between religion and science. Sure, that bad case of strep throat your kid got right before your scheduled vacation to Barbados was caused by her chewing on a virus-laden pencil she’d borrowed in math class. And of course, waking up to that enormous zit at the end of your nose on the day of your big interview was caused by that new moisturiser you took a chance on. You’re not delusional: you know your basic science. But that doesn’t mean God’s not trying to tell you something by—what’s the best word here—‘authoring’ these events. Perhaps He didn’t want you lounging on that sundrenched beach because you’d have stepped on an HIV-infected needle half-buried in the sand. Or maybe God didn’t like the fact that you’d been so boastful about landing that job interview and thought you could do with a bit of humbling, so he turned you into Rudolph for a few days.

Gelman refers to this way of thinking as “co-existence reasoning,” where natural, scientific forces are viewed as directly causing a certain event, but supernatural forces are perceived simultaneously as somehow blowing life into this science. Another way to say this is that science and God often co-exist harmoniously in the same mindset, with science acting ‘proximally’ and God acting ‘distally.’ Working out the mechanical intricacies of precisely how they’re related to one another is another matter. In the case of the blemish that ruined your career prospects, did God whisper in your ear to pick up that particular brand of moisturiser while you were standing in the store aisle, perhaps seducing you to try something new by making just the right soundtrack come over the store’s speakers as you stood there deliberating between products? did He cause the manufacturing technician in Singapore to glance down at her wristwatch and put one grain too many of a certain chemical in that particular jar of moisturiser, a grain that subsequently lodged into an unfortunately placed pore?

The post does mention that while co-existence reasoning can exist – the extent to which an individual prescribes more causal power in a higher power than in science is a whole ‘nother can of intelligently designed worms. So – should you be privy to any cocktail parties that break out into a religion vs. science melee – assure folks that the rationales have been shown to co-exist without anyone spontaneously bursting into flames. Easy as that.

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